I awoke this morning to the heartbreaking news that my pal Ante W. has unexpectedly passed away. I am absolutely gutted by this, as I'm sure is everyone else who had the pleasure of knowing him. Ante was such a sweet man, and the closest thing I've ever experienced to sunshine in human form; I knew the guy for a decade, and I don't think I ever saw him when he didn't have a twinkle in his eye, a goofy grin on his face, and a hearty chuckle welling up in his chest. These are the kind of people we need more of in this world, not less...
I first met Ante and his wife Gerry in the fall of 2003, around the time that weekends in Palm Springs became a regular part of my life. Gerry and Ante were totally kindered musical spirits, both of them into the same groovy Sixties and Seventies sounds as I was, while Ante — hailing as he did from Sweden — knew even more about Swedish pop and garage bands of the Sixties than I did. The odds of buying a place in the desert just down the street from another Tages fan must have been infinitesimal, but such is the magic of existence sometimes...
We shared countless cocktails, barbecues, laughs and good times together, as well as countless conversations about whatever musical obscurities we were digging at the moment. Ante and Gerry had a late-Sixties Rock-Ola jukebox at their PS pad, and I'll never forget the sheer delight he radiated upon discovering that their particular jukebox had once been advertised in the trade magazines as "The Psychedelic Money Grabber". That was the sort of detail that deeply appealed to his taste for history and his taste for absurdity — and in Ante's case, both of those senses were always working overtime.
Ante also had great taste in threads, as evidenced by his leopard-print boots above, the Leon Russell t-shirt he's wearing up at the top, and this pic below, which was taken of us on New Year's Eve 2006/07. We were both big fans of the Richard Roundtree "leather car coat and turtleneck" look, to say the least.
We shared a similar fondness for exotic booze, though I had to draw the line at the bottle of Bäska Droppar he once gave me as a housewarming gift. A spiced Swedish digestif flavored with wormwood, Bäska Droppar is pretty much the liquid embodiment of "an acquired taste". I sampled a shot of it in his presence, and I'll never forget Ante's uproarious laughter when I told him it tasted like cedar chips soaked in urine and kerosene, or his knowing grin two days later when I told him that I still hadn't managed to get the taste out of my mouth. Far more appreciated was the housewarming gift that he and Gerry gave Katie and I last year: A six-pack of the Belgian brew Leffe (one of my faves) and two goblets to drink it from...
Back in early 2010, when I was going through the stressful process of selling the place in Palm Springs, Ante and Gerry were enormously helpful and supportive, offering my ailing cat and I safe haven for an afternoon or two while the house was being shown, and allowing me to store my records and DVDs at their place for months so as to make mine appear less cluttered and more saleable. I've never forgotten that kindness, nor forgotten Ante's mensch-y willingness to drive those boxes of music and movies to my new pad in L.A. in exchange for some Vietnamese food and a couple of Newcastles — and since he always loved the reference to Newcastle Brown in Humble Pie's "30 Days in the Hole," I'm sure he wouldn't mind me posting this immensely ass-kicking live version of the song for him right here...
Ante and I were last in contact about a month ago; he and Gerry were going to be back in the NYC area for the first time in ages, and he wanted some recommendations on things to do and see in the East Village. He passed away shortly after their return. I'm really glad that he got the chance to see the city one more time, at least. The last email I ever received from Ante went like this:
"Funny, I was listening to The Fugs while BBQ'ing earlier today. 'Slum Goddess' and 'Belle of Avenue A' are nice pieces of East Village poetry and sadly out of date, I guess. BTW have you heard Hollywood Brats? UK glam punks Dolls style with a Canadian singer who escaped to Sweden mid-late 70's. I heard the brilliant 'Sick On You' on the SWE radio back in 77 or so, and didn't find it again until the other day. Good times!"
BBQing while listening to The Fugs? Yeah, that was Ante in a perfect nutshell, and the world is indeed a poorer place without him. I cried for him this morning, but I know in my heart that's not what he'd want me to do. So tonight I'm gonna crack open a Leffe in his honor, and crank some Hollywood Brats (and plenty of other loud n' nasty garage, punk and hard rock anthems) for him, as well. You should do it, too, even if you didn't know the guy; I'm sure his soul would appreciate a joyously noisy send-off.
Farewell, my righteous Swedish friend, and thank you for all the rockin' good times — and even for the Bäska Droppar, which remains in my bar cart as a fond memento. May you rest in sweet peace.